The consequences of having toxic parents
The toxic relationships between parents and children are in the light of day. Find out what its consequences are.
Unfortunately today, toxic relationships between parents and their children are much more common than you might think . A toxic parent can make your child dependent and unhappy in the future. Despite being a quite serious and serious problem, it is usually treated little going completely unnoticed.
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THE BEHAVIOR OF A TOXIC PARENT
Despite the fact that the behavior of a toxic father is quite evident to anyone, in most cases the children are not able to identify said toxicity, having a very negative impact on their person. As the years go by, the child grows older and realizes the terrible consequences that having a father or mother with high doses of toxicity has for him .
On many occasions, the father or mother stands out for their authority, forcing the child to do everything he is told without attending to reasons. The consequences in the long run of this authoritarian power is that the child becomes submissive, dependent and with very little confidence in his person.
Another type of toxic parent is usually the overprotective. Although the child may not realize it, in the long term such overprotection can cause him to lack initiative and fear when it comes to achieving his own goals. Getting into the child’s life and not allowing him freedom to make his own decisions has fatal consequences, such as lies or submission.
THE BEHAVIOR OF A TOXIC MOTHER
One of the most common behaviors of a toxic mother is usually that of sacrifice. The mother often uses emotional blackmail in front of the child by letting him know that she has had to sacrifice many things throughout her life in order to dedicate herself to raising her child. As the child becomes older and older, it makes him feel guilty in the event that he wants to leave home and start his own family .
The suffering mother does not act evil, although she manipulates her son in order to make him believe at all times that she should be the most important person in his life. When the child is older and can create a family, the toxic relationship is still present as the mother will continue to manipulate him at will, making him believe at all times that the real priority should be her.
CONSEQUENCES OF HAVING A TOXIC MOTHER
The son who has a toxic relationship with his suffering mother will continue to suffer the consequences of it despite the passing of the years. The adult child continues to think that it is due to her because she has sacrificed for him throughout her life. He will feel tied to his mother for life and in the case of trying to get away from her, he will feel quite guilty for the pain it may cause him. A child who has a type of mother like the one suffered will be submissive, very accommodating and polite.
CONSEQUENCES OF HAVING A TOXIC FATHER
In the case of children who have had a toxic relationship with their father , in their adulthood they become bitter and with a low self-esteem on the ground. On an emotional level they are quite unstable and have problems when it comes to being able to relate to other people. In the extreme case, they can become quite rebellious and become future criminals.
Dr. Tabriella Perivolaris, Sara's mother and fan of fashion, beauty, motherhood, among others, about the female universe. Since 2018 she has been working as a copywriter, always bringing to her articles a little of her experience and experience as a mother and woman.