5 steps to ending children’s tantrums
The first thing parents should do is take a deep breath and stay calm even if the little one has a tantrum.
Calming a child’s tantrum is not an easy task for any parent. In most cases, adults are frustrated when they see how they are not capable of solving such behavior of the minor. The problem is that parents get more and more nervous when they see that the tantrum or the tantrum is far from over. Given this, the most important thing is undoubtedly to remain serene and as calm as possible and from here to find a solution that allows the child to be reassured. Do not lose detail and pay close attention to the following guidelines that will help you deal with your child’s dreaded tantrum or tantrum.
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TAKE A DEEP BREATH AND STAY CALM
The first thing parents should do is take a deep breath and stay calm even if the little one is having a major tantrum. The nerves are not good when it comes to solving the problem, it’s the same only going to get worse.
AN EXPLANATION MUST BE GIVEN TO THE CHILD
The ideal is to take the child and explain very calmly why he cannot do what he wants. You have to make him understand at all times that with this attitude or behavior he will not achieve anything. The important thing about this step is to be able to strengthen the bond between the parents and the child and that communication is the best way to solve problems.
HUG THE LITTLE ONE
On many occasions communication does not work and the child continues kicking and very angry. In such a case, the parents should go and pick it up and lift it off the ground with the greatest possible love. Then you must hug him and tuck him in to calm him down. Before this, you have to let him scream and vent so that he knows that with tantrums nothing is achieved.
YOU HAVE TO CREATE A DISTRACTION
The next step in solving the child’s misbehavior is to create a distraction so that the child will forget about the thing that caused the tantrum. In many cases, the distraction theory works perfectly and the child tends to calm down quickly. If you distract him with something that interests him, it is quite normal for the little one to forget the tantrum or the tantrum.
TALK AGAIN
If the child does not come to his senses at any time, avoid the nerves and wait for the child to tire of screaming and kicking. When you return home, it is important to sit down with the child again and calmly talk about what happened. The little one must be given at all times that he has done very badly and that his behavior is totally reprehensible. Unfortunately most parents underestimate their own children and avoid listening to them and discussing the issue with them. Empathizing and being able to listen to feelings and emotions is essential and key to avoiding future tantrums.
In conclusion, it must be said that tantrums and tantrums are the order of the day and it is quite normal to see children lying on the floor every day because they do not get what they want. Faced with this, parents tend to get more nervous than normal, making the situation worse. That is why it is important to stay calm as much as possible and calm down in order to solve the problem as quickly as possible. Do not lose detail of the steps to follow when treating in the best possible way the possible anger and tantrums of the smallest of the house.
Dr. Tabriella Perivolaris, Sara's mother and fan of fashion, beauty, motherhood, among others, about the female universe. Since 2018 she has been working as a copywriter, always bringing to her articles a little of her experience and experience as a mother and woman.