How to cope with your father or mother having changed sex
Transsexuality in parents is a difficult issue for children to face and therefore they must learn to listen, understand and tolerate.
Life takes many turns and sometimes people we thought we knew very well surprise us with unexpected news one day. If our father or mother confess to us that they are now a transsexual , that is, that they want to or that they have changed their sex, it may generate very confusing feelings in us and we will have to take it with psychology.
We must be empathetic and try to understand the reasons why they have decided to make this decision in order to be able to live with the love and affection that a father and a mother deserve.In PregDream we tell you how to face that your mother or father has changed sex .
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WHEN THEY GIVE YOU THE NEWS
In some cases, children realize that their mother or father is not comfortable in their sex . Unfortunately, this is a very difficult situation for a transsexual , especially if he has a child who has lived for many years in a sex that does not feel like hers.
Whether you expect it or not, you must bear in mind that your father or mother have had a very hard time until the moment they have decided to change their sex and take it psychologically .
Our society still does not fully accept this change and there are people who can make the transsexual feel very bad for something that is not bad at all. So, regardless of your personal opinions or the psychology of your other family members about sex change, you must understand that what your father or mother needs most at that time is a supportive child who loves and cares for him or her. respect the same way he does , unconditionally, without thinking about your gender or how you prefer to live your life.
FROM THIS MOMENT
Now that you know that your mother or father is a transsexual, your life may change. Perhaps you will live the steps of your parent’s sex change and you should be their best support during these moments .
Think that by doing this sex change your father or your father will be happier because all his life he has been waiting to take this step.
However, this does not mean that nothing is going to change in the family and the children are in charge of making this continue . Surely, other members of this same family do not accept or understand the decision of your father or mother.You should not let the family make you feel bad or unhappy, because that will affect you very negatively and each of us is free to do what you see best with your body, as long as it doesn’t make you sick or fear for your life.
YOU HAVE TO CREATE ESTEEM AND EMPATHY ACCORDING TO THE NEW SITUATION
You may change sex itself is not easy and your parent has to go through medical and other actions , must not decay or say anything you might regret. At the end of the day, there is only one mother and father, so it doesn’t matter if you now have two mothers or two fathers because you know that in their hearts they are the same people who have spent so much time by your side, in the face of the good and in the face of the bad, and that is always what matters not the sex they want to have or the person they want to love .
Dr. Tabriella Perivolaris, Sara's mother and fan of fashion, beauty, motherhood, among others, about the female universe. Since 2018 she has been working as a copywriter, always bringing to her articles a little of her experience and experience as a mother and woman.
