Signs that your marriage is on its last legs
If these signs happen to you in your marriage, you should take action if you want to save your family.
In all relationships it is normal for couples to argue and more so if couples have children. Sometimes when arguments are too frequent or begin to be a family relationship problem, it is possible that more serious underlying problems may begin. If you have begun to wonder about the future of your relationship and your family life, it is because something is possibly not working well right now.
Maybe there is nothing to worry about … or maybe there is. There are some signs that can tell you if your marriage is really on its last legs or if, on the contrary, it can be saved in the event that it is what you want to achieve.
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YOU SPEAK BUT DO NOT COMMUNICATE THEM
A healthy relationship is based on intimate communication, not just talking about the banal things in life. In this sense, it will be necessary for both of you to be able to listen to each other while you speak and for both of you to have the same opportunities to speak and express your opinion, without fear, without feeling self-conscious.
It is necessary to listen to each other sincerely and actively, both the complaints and the concerns of the couple . Being sincere and honest is essential. If either of you is unwilling to listen or compromise, then it is a clear sign that the marriage is starting to break down.
YOU DON’T RESPECT THEIR OPINIONS
You should feel free to talk to your partner about anything and know that they will respect your way of thinking. The other way around, of course, it should be the same and you have to be able to respect their opinions. If your partner is unwilling to respect what you say or what you do, then clearly your marriage is in trouble. The same happens if you are the one who is not willing / to respect what your partner says or does.
Nobody wants to follow a relationship where they have to put aside their ideas and interests just to please the partner. There must be open and safe communication of both emotions and thoughts. Mutual respect is essential.
YOU DON’T SPEND TIME TOGETHER
If the time you spent together is left behind and you do not enjoy your company, it is clear that something is not going well. If you notice that you do not feel good about this change, or you are alarmed that you spend time with your friends better than with your partner … it is normal. This problem can be caused by many factors, but clearly something is wrong. The connection you have with your partner is of the utmost importance not only to maintain your relationship, but to maintain the family as a unit.
YOU HAVE DOUBTS IF YOU MARRIED THE RIGHT PERSON
If you start to have doubts as to whether you have married the right person … beware that the ship begins to capsize due to the rough tide! If this is the case, it is time to rethink and reevaluate your relationship and the path you want your family to take. If before there were traits of your partner’s personality that you liked and that you cannot stand now, you are in the danger zone.
NEITHER OF YOU WANTS TO PUT IN THE EFFORT TO MAKE THE MARRIAGE WORK.
If neither wants to make an effort further to make the marriage work, then the relationship has an expiration date and have to start thinking about how your family will be in separate ways.
Any relationships like a plant. It takes a lot of care, attention, and love to thrive and grow. If you see some of these warning signs in your relationship, you will need to start talking honestly with your partner. Do you want to fight for your family or is it better that you think about how to continue life with your children but with separate paths? Your children need you together as parents, not necessarily as a couple.
Dr. Tabriella Perivolaris, Sara's mother and fan of fashion, beauty, motherhood, among others, about the female universe. Since 2018 she has been working as a copywriter, always bringing to her articles a little of her experience and experience as a mother and woman.