The positive and negative influences of parenting
Parents can exert a positive or negative influence on the upbringing of their children, find out how it happens.
If you are a father or mother, you will know that you have the responsibility to provide your child with basic needs, such as food, clothing, security, and so on. It is also important that the emotional needs are met so that the child grows up happy and develops in a healthy and healthy way.
The upbringing of children helps to form the future adult And it is necessary that the self-awareness of the little ones is enhanced in the process. Parenting practices directly affect your child, their skills and competencies both hers and yours. In this sense, it is necessary that you take into account your parenting style and how your children are growing by your side.
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PARENTING STYLE AFFECTS YOUR CHILDREN’S DEVELOPMENT
The parenting style you have to educate your children can affect them positively or negatively. How you react when your child misbehaves will influence his personality development. It is necessary to advocate for an authoritarian but at the same time flexible teaching style where respect and love are always the protagonists.
If a parent does not allow room for negotiation or the atmosphere at home is not warm and harmonious, children will grow up dependent or rebellious. A father who is too permissive and allows his children to make their own decisions without being a good guide for them, his children will grow up without having any kind of self-control.
It is necessary to think about this to be a good influence on the education of your children, what type of parenting do you want to pursue?
YOUR EXAMPLE IS VITAL FOR THEM
The way you interact with others and react to various situations sets a valuable example for your child. If you are a calm, helpful person and always act with integrity, your child will learn that this behavior is correct and will be a priority in his life.
On the other hand, if you are a dishonest person, a liar, you get angry, you are lazy … your children will learn that this behavior is correct and they will follow this bad example, being therefore a negative influence.
If you suffer from mental illness, this can also negatively affect the development of your children. It is necessary that if you have a disorder or a mental illness, that you treat yourself appropriately so that your children learn that you can have an acceptable quality of life with effort. Depression, for example, has a cyclical pattern between parents and children, something that shows that children learn through the behavior of their parents, repeating a pattern.
THE IMPORTANCE OF FAMILY AND INTERACTIONS WITH OTHERS
The way you relate to others is also very important for your children, because it will directly affect how he develops with others. If you treat people badly, your child will learn to treat others badly as a ‘normal’ (learned) form of behavior. On the other hand, if you are an empathetic person and you also think about the well-being of others, your child will also learn that for his future relationships.
It is necessary to work in oneself empathy, resilience and assertiveness so that children learn these fundamental values for their development.
It is also necessary that you get involved in the growth of your children so that in this way, they feel that you will always be by their side, that you are an essential pillar. A guide who will not fail him and who will support him for good and bad. For your child to grow up healthy and emotionally balanced, you must play an active role in his education and life. Your children must feel that you are always with them and that you are part of their team in life … and never, that you are on the opposite team.
Dr. Tabriella Perivolaris, Sara's mother and fan of fashion, beauty, motherhood, among others, about the female universe. Since 2018 she has been working as a copywriter, always bringing to her articles a little of her experience and experience as a mother and woman.
